build.zig: let user decide how to set build mode + fix linker warning (#2763)
* build.zig: let user decide how to set build mode
This should delegate the responsibility of calling `standardReleaseOptions` and setting the build mode of the `*LibExeObjStep` step to the caller, especially since this might not be the process by which one wants to determine the build mode.
Also changes hides `getSrcDir` to enforce usage of `srcdir`, and asserts that the file is in fact inside a directory.
* build.zig: set root_src param to `null`
Supplying the header file as the root source here appears to cause a linker warning of the form:
```
LLD Link... warning(link): unexpected LLD stderr:
ld.lld: warning: {build_root}/zig-cache/o/{hash}/libraylib.a: archive member '{build_root}/zig-cache/o/{hash}/raylib.o' is neither ET_REL nor LLVM bitcode
```
Passing `null` instead fixes it.