.travis.yml: update wayland dependency ECM version
extra-cmake-modules 5.38.0a is no longer hosted at the specified
kernel.org link. Use the occasion to move on to 5.58.
Because newer ECM debian packages have the control.tar file
xz-compressed, we need to update dpkg as well on trusty.
For more information, see
https://bugs.launchpad.net/ubuntu/+source/dpkg/+bug/1730627